Monday, April 04, 2011
Restrictions........... and some public service lists.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Better than Planned.
Truth be told - this on is probably my favorite. Why?
Because the duck clasp came from a watch I remember my Daddy wearing. The little pendant I picked up in a parking lot somehere. And this bit of chain is from an old cheap necklace in the "metal bits" box. This fits in with the challenge to USE THE BEST STUFF.
I thrifted a decrepit Bible (actually came from the FREE bin) and waffled back and forth about cutting the pages. Note the Bible is falling apart already. It is water stained and several pages are loose. I decided to simply cut a small piece of the Harmony of the Gospel section in the back. So I held my breath and I cut it. Then I turned it over and discovered that the word Easter was centered perfectly in my belt buckle doodad. Happy Accident.
The little brass bit looked like it was black when I got it. It is a column from a German clock. One of those that was under a glass dome. I snagged the remains from a dumpster at Habitat ReStore because I saw the guy toss it and I wanted the porcelain face. When I polished the piece - this wonderful vine pattern was what I found. Love this one too.
Then Peace.
I like this one - it adds to the look of the entire set. A lock and key charm from a junk bracelet. and a vintage button.
Here they all are together. The set makes me so very pleased. These are mine - all mine and here is what I did with them........
Now people -- I do not know about you, but this view is so very much better than it used to be. I hung them with Command adhesive strips. Friday, March 25, 2011
the tv cabinet.
The cabinet is made from a cedar armoire. Now do not freak out - this was a free cabinet and the door panels were busted when it showed up on my front porch a few years back. Yes - just like a stray dog - the dang thing was on my front porch when I came home one day. Cool in and of itself.
At the time, the Man at my address converted it using shelves made from recycled wood and trim we removed from our house during the remodel. I took the broken panels out and replaced them with luan (a really thin plywood like product.) I put bookshelf wallpaper on the front of the panels and painted the inside white. In THEORY, we would keep this closed and the pretty "bookshelves" would be seen.
YEAH RIGHT - NOT.
Then dang thing stays open all the time. Just like this........

Saturday - I dragged all the crap out and cleaned it. Straightened the stuff inside. And decided to go ahead and complete a project I had been PLANNING on doing for weeks. Actually years.
Now you guys know me - I am all about the right tools - (insert hysterically appropriate commentary here).
I grabbed a hammer and a prying device ........ yes that is a flat blade frosting knife from the kitchen drawer.
And I set up an appropriate painting table on my front porch. Yes that one is a bar stool.Monday, March 14, 2011
I am such a packaging fool.
Friday night - soccer games - then some crochet time in the car while I was waiting for the College Girl and her boy to show up for a ride home.
Saturday found me running the top of Hartwell Dam. I had not done so since September, but I took almost 5 minutes off my run time - pretty significant for an old, fat lady, missing a major organ. Plus, I finished almost a half mile in front of the man (and I came from behind). Did I make sure and let him know just how I felt about this --- well - duh.
Saturday evening was a 50th birthday dinner for a friend.
Sunday was church. Then I got home and discovered a long and assertive cane from my climbing rose was invading College Girls parking place at the house. Seems the cane and the associated thorns were regularly attacking peeps getting out on the passenger side of her car. So there I was in my church clothes, pruning shears in hand, pruning roses. This led to pruning crepe myrtles. Then to pruning the Eucalyptus tree. ALL IN MY CHURCH CLOTHES. craziness. Mom was on a roll.
It was a great weekend. For all kinds of outdoor activity.
But about the title of this post.
I love great packaging. Especially packaging that I can reuse. And sometimes a surprise package will make me giddy with absolute "OMG that's awesome" delight.
We ate lunch at a local meat and 3 place called the Tanner House. I ordered banana pudding for dessert. Then I asked for it "to go". Did they bring me one of those horrid styrofoam containers of banana pudding. NO NO NO ---
Just look how my to go order was packaged.

A cute little mason jar complete with gingham print lid.
Poor Hubby - he just looked at me with that "deer in the headlights" look familiar to bloggers everywhere - as I whipped out the phone to take pictures of said little jar.
Please tell me that at least you guys understand.
Have a wonderful day.
Wednesday, March 09, 2011
FORGIVE........
She got to choose the word for February and she chose FORGIVE. I cringed. I complained. I wanted to quit the challenge.
I have a lot to FORGIVE. Honestly people we all do.
Often it is much harder to FORGIVE the closer the person(s) are to us. And most often FORGIVING ourself is the most difficult act of all.
I worked hard on this challenge and I let go of some small things - I am still working hard on this and I am slowly letting go of some bigger things.
What I discovered about myself - sometimes hanging on to the hurt and anger becomes the comfortable way to feel. That comfy shroud becomes sort of an armour. Even a weapon. And without realizing it - I become angrier, cynical, ugly. MaryAnn pointed out that even in my blog writing of the past the sense of ugliness was there.
I went back and read many many posts. It was awful. It was ugly. I was ugly.
This is not a religious blog, but I am a Christian. I went to the scripture. I read other people's writings on FORGIVENESS. I searched blogs. I talked to friends.
I learned - FORGIVING is not a once and done thing. It is a do over and over thing. A slow release of the hurt, of the anger, of the ugly. It is an act. It is a discipline. It requires work. Focus. Determination. It allows those feeling to surface again - raw and painful - instead of being buried and covered up, tucked away to minimize the horror of it. There has even been a process very similar to grieving over some of this.
But this word - FORGIVE - this challenge set forth by my precious friend (who didn't give up on me) has been by far the most rewarding word so far.
I am still working on it.
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Remember - the actual act of GOD'S GRACE AND FORGIVENESS was not a stunning, gorgeous piece of art or Jewelry. Like the bracelet pictured below.
It actually probably looked more like this ----

And this ....
But His act brings me closer. And FORGVING myself and others leads me closer to ...
FORGIVE - it is hard. FORGIVE it is necessary. FORGIVE it will make room for JOY in my life.
FORGIVE.
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Thank you MaryAnn for this challenge. I am still working on it.
I have chosen an easier word for this month -- my word is PLAN.
Love -
As we going into the Lenten season (today is Ash Wednesday) Spend 40 days in the Wilderness with Jesus and know that His Sacrifice means everything to us.
Friday, March 04, 2011
Coupon Savings in my world.
I posted about my savings at the grocery store on facebook and she asked me to give her some more information.
Let's start with disclaimers - I have a real 40+ hour a week job. I have an athlete who lives at my house. I am perpetually disorganized. I do not have the energy or the inclination for extreme coupon processes. I do not have anywhere to store large amount of nonperishable goods (no 100 big ass packages of toilet paper sitting around). I have no desire to purchase some 400 dollars worth of stuff for 5.00 and I refuse to run all over town because this store has a 3 cent better price on an items. So I guess this could be called couponing for the real world.
Last year I saved approximately 1800.00 using store "bonus" cards and coupon savings. That may not seem like much to the kings and queens of the process, but it was a good number to me.
Here is my process.
1. I have the following store promo cards in my wallet. Bi-Lo (my grocery store), BigLots, Ingles (the run by store on the way home), CVS, RiteAid, Barnes and Noble (I pay 25.00/year for this one but we buy so many books and magazines that this is a luxury worth having for me). I faithfully scan them and check the little coupon printers at the appropriate stores.
2. I check the following websites often.
www.bi-lo.com (my gorcery store) they have the weekly ad online, so I can plan ahead.
www.coupons.com
www.hip2save.com
www.frugalgirls.com
3. I "like" several manufactures websites on Facebook.
4. I get email newsletters from my favorites, including pillsbury and hobby lobby.
5. I collect the coupon inserts from the paper and sale papers of stores I frequent.
6. If we don't eat it - I don't clip it. If I don't clip it - I leave it in a box that my local library has just for this purpose. I do clip diaper coupons for friends with babies and I share those. If I notice a special in a store ad and see a coupon I may even note that on the coupon for those friends.
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My storage and working system.
We add to our grocery list all week. I don't have a printout list - honestly most of the time it is the back of a junk mail envelope - and it may be written in pen, pencil, marker, or even crayon depending on what's handy.
This is my Coupon Keeper. I made it. It makes me happy. It appeals to the artsy fartsy standards for being visually appealing. It works for me. That last statement is absolutely the most important one.

I slide my coupons into library card pockets. Each page has a picture and a quote. The pages are divided into the various groupings that made sense to me.
My groupings - BAKING - BREAD - BREAKFAST -CANNED GOODS - CLEANING - CONDIMENTS - DAIRY/EGGS - DRINKS - FROZEN - HEALTH/BEAUTY - JUICE/PRODUCE - MEAT - MISC - PAPER/STORAGE - PET - RICE/PASTA - SNACKS - STORE - TRACKING.Note - the STORE category is for those store specific coupons - especially the ones that print on the bottom of the receipt
Note - RESTAURANT coupons go in my misc section.
Behind each coupon page - there is a pretty piece of paper. Notes to remind me to check facebook pages for specials etc.online printout coupons

Have a wunnerful day.
Wednesday, March 02, 2011
tidbits
NOTE 2: I ran every step of the running route tonight - every freakin' step. I am tickled that the vitamin d seems to be helping not only my energy, but my stamina as well.NOTE 3: I met some wonderful people on Saturday at an antique mall. Emails have been exchanged and I have new friends. How cool is that?
NOTE 4: I have a smart phone - some days I hate it. However; I can upload and update and check facebook from that phone. Softball Princess has made that discovery too. So last night she asked to use my phone. I told her to wait until I updated my status and checked my notifications. Her response "Mom, that it the saddest thing I ever heard you say." My response --- LOL --- as if it were a word.
NOTE 5: I do not use text shorthand at all. I type all the words and try to use punctuation and correct grammer, but the predict mode on my loverly smart phone sometimes makes me cuss. Then I send texts that read like " love you not live you - damn predict mode"
NOTE 6: If scientists discover a link between Mexican food and cancer - I AM DOOMED. Same for dill pickles, olives, margaritas, and sweet tea.
NOTE 7: Today is Wednesday. The Man and I have fallen into Wednesday night being Mexican Night. So all in one day, I will enjoy each of those favorite foods on the list in Note 6. (I had a dill pickle and sweet tea with my lunch - the rest I will cover at dinner)
Have a wonderful day.
Monday, February 28, 2011
fun stuff
Anyway - pretty weather means not much MaggieGrace goodies. Those activities have been replaced by ---
soccer games...
looking for the softball princess a car for a graduation present ...
sitting in the proch swing with a frosty adult beverage listening to the bullfrogs at the pond across the road....
and playing dresss designer with college girl....
Yup - dress designer.
She is making herself a formal dress. We are "engineering" a bodice. Based on a picture. She bought a pattern and cut out all of the pieces on Saturday. We gathered and pinned together a mockup of the bodice design. Then the frugal (CHEAP) people that we are started working on the embellishment ideas.
The picture below is the waist sash idea we came up with......

The gun metal grey fabric is what the dress will be made of. It is a gorgeous drapery lining fabric that she is using. The skirt is cut on the bias and so far it seems will drape really well. She is adding an overlay of black lace and then the bodice inspired by the picture she had.
We found some sparkly black trim and then the silver accent trim --- it is actually a Christmas tree trim. Told you we were cheap.
Told you we were having fun in this neck of the woods.
Health update. I had a routine doc visit last week, in my bloodwork (which includes some extra panels because of the kidney thing) they discovered that my Vitamin D levels were seriously low. The doc called me in a prescription for 50000 units of Vitamin D once a week. Hello - I feel so much better after ONE DOSE. That amazed me. According to the doc - the sunscreen that I so faithfully use could be part of the culprit. Seems the human body needs a certain amount of sunshine on unprotected skin to make the Vitamin D.
Who knew? Not me.
Anyway - I'm looking forward to the dress creation. Will keep you updated as we go.
Have a wonderful day.
Monday, February 21, 2011
Love this .....
So for the last few days, I have been painting my canvases. The red, gold, and green are house paint sample bottles purchased from a big box retailer. The purple is left over from the softball princess room redo.
First I painted two coats on each canvas. Then I took a chocolately brown color and watered it down. I scrubbed - rubbed - blotted - streaked that over the back grounds leaving this wonderful mottled look to them.

I picked papers - for the words - faith lost out - but it will still happen on a different canvas.
Then I cut my words using my CRICUT. Love that tool.
Then I looked at another CRICUT cartridge listing that I had and found a medallion that I like.
Here they all are - paint still drying, but happy I was at this point.After the paint dried - I broke out the Mod Podge.
Detail Shots - I did the MOD PODGE yesterday and will spend my week embellishing the center of the medallions
I think this paper is my favorite.

The purple is not a favorite, but it does work in the overall scheme.
The green background is my favorite - the mottled effect just makes me happy.I already have an idea of where these will go. Can't wait to show you that - maybe I'll get to it by next weekend.
Here they are - partially finished - lined up on a piano that I would gladly give to someone if they would show up to get it. Tuesday, February 08, 2011
Living - loving - life
It was a drag.......
But on Saturday, I felt like getting out and about with her.....

Sorry - he kinda comes with the package. I looked hard for a picture that didn't include him. Oh well -- he's a nice kid and he's housebroken too.
The pretty girl in the picture is College Girl. She wants to make a formal dress. We ventured out to look for fabric. My mama joined us. It was a load of fun.
We went here.....

AllAboutFabrics in Williamston, SC. Google it. They have a nice website. It is open to the public once a month. Well worth the trip.
There was lace. Lots of lace.
And bolt after bolt of fabric. We touched it and compared drape. We looked at colors. We loaded things in our cart and debated. We took fabric back and got more. Trims too. Hours we spent. Wednesday, February 02, 2011
Word
Yesterday I said we would discuss the February word. MaryAnn got to pick. I love her, she knows this. She has been a rock and a light in my sometimes very dark and turbulent world. Texts everyday. Sometimes a lot of them. Sometimes a few. Her handwriting is part of what I look for in my mailbox. She inspires me. AND she pushes me to be better.
So I absolutely FREAKED OUT when my text came ----
FORGIVE.
I was "ticked off". Well my initial wording before the backspace key won the battle was different.
See - real forgiveness is hard for me. I get what the man calls "historical" and I can remember all kinds of screw ups from the 30+ years I have known him. This particular talent for recall is not limited to him either. If we have known each other long enough to have a difference of opinion and/or hurt each others feelings, I can and will use that in a verbal discussion - also know as a fight - or screaming match - or cussing fit - hello, I even slam doors.
This is not something I am proud of and at 45 I have learned to control at least the full blown display of this trait.
Even worse than all that - I hold myself to some pretty exacting standards and I get historical about that too.
Forgive - this word - it will be my most challenging one yet.
So there you have it - full confession of a month quite full of very difficult focus.
I'll let you know how this works out. There are some major ones that I really need to deal with --- we will see.
Now ----- about the picture below. Maggie Grace has not done a whole lot of late. But this picture has been in my notebooks for a long time.

Picture is from here.
There's a party going on here - and if you do not read The Pioneer Woman, you should. But that is not why I have this picture.
Tuesday, February 01, 2011
Celebrating beautiful moments
MaryAnn and I are doing a word collaboration - funny when we started it was about making or doing - about not spending money - etc. Like so many projects it has morphed into something completely different. Gotta love that -
January's word - chosen by me was beauty (beautiful) and in the bleak post seaonal days that January brings, I have enjoyed looking for those moments of beautiful.
so here are some favorites of my month
The Softball Princess has multiple options for college - that is a seriously beautiful thing. College campus visits almost always include a visit to the art gallery - there is some serious beauty in each of those. In addition - every campus has its own beauty.
As I record my daily gratitudes - I find myself focusing on abundant - often tiny - beautiful moments each day.
Good food - shared with good company - that happened this month too. It was a beautiful thing and in this particular case - needs to happen more often.
Asking my body to do one more pushup - and accomplishing that - yes people that was a beautiful moment. Bootcamp is a great thing. And the friendships made there are wonderful too. 
These were moments. Moments make up days. Days make up weeks. Weeks make up years. Years make up a lifetime. Things change. Challenges happen. But in the still of each moment there is beauty - you just have to pay attention to see it.










